My Story
I was born and raised in London and seemed to have a happy family life. My parents were working class, first generation Turkish Cypriots escaping the civil war back in Cyprus. Home life wasn't always easy, and parenting in the '80s was not as informed as it is today.
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One day in my early teens, I was alone, and I remember a tear falling down my cheek, I had no reason to cry...why was I crying? On another occasion, I remember walking home from school feeling like a zombie and asking if anything was real, if I was real. Relationships also came easy to me, I seemed to be stable within them.
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Then, one day in my late 30s, I was made redundant. I had worked full-time since I was 18 years old, so it was a shock to my system. Lockdown and Covid quickly followed which meant finding work had to be postponed, so I decided to work on myself, re-group and find my passion.
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I explored lots of webinars, took care of my physical health for the first time in my life, and I felt fantastic.
From that moment decided I had to work in an environment that would be centred around well-being.
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Through the many webinars I was joining, sometimes twice a day, I eventually found what I was looking for!
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It was a fully body resonance, not 'this seems like a good idea'...a full body response that I could not shake off for days. An intuitive knowing, a 'calling' if you will.
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This course lit me up and excited me so much that after completing it, I went on to study relational trauma.
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I learned the reason I cried for 'no reason' as a teen was because there was a deep sadness inside my body that I had learned to shut down.
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I learned the reason I felt like a zombie was because I had shut down (numbed) my feelings for so long that I was dissociating. In fact, I was so numb I thought I was unfazed by life.
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I learned that relationships were so easy because I was a co-dependant people pleaser who couldn't speak up.
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I learned so much about my self that it became my life purpose to help others take on the exploration of inner work.
I do this work now from a place of personal experience and passion to help others heal, as a natural empath and HSP, this is the only thing that makes sense to me.
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I became, like many of us healers...the wounded healer, and I love what I do.
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I have helped many people so far, and plan to help many more.
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My story is only just beginning...and so is yours!